February 16, 2010
I Can’t Say That! They’re My Friends.
Let's say your friend has a really bad habit. They're making a poor lifestyle choice or they're being socially insensitive to the world without even realizing it.
Shouldn't we, as their friends, be the ones telling them to quit it? Or at least help them understand the perception the world has of their action?
But, no. We don't. Because...we're their friends, and we don't want them to get mad at us. After all, it might be awkward. But if we can't be honest with our friends, who else is going to do it?
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February 15, 2010
At What Point Do You Give Up on a Friendship?
I've had friends for a long time now... that I get absolutely nothing out of.
And I'm aware that friendship is not solely about how the relationship benefits me. Frankly, that's the only reason I've lasted this long - the idea that I'm offering some sort of benefit to these people.
But, their personalities simply don't match mine. I don't enjoy talking with or being with them. So my question for the day is, have you ever intentionally cut ties with a long-term friendship, and how did you do it?
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