Going on vacation as a family can be a really fun and fulfilling experience, but it can also be highly stressful. There are a lot of things you have to consider when you take the kids on vacation with you, and you need to think about them. Getting away from it all is crucial for recharging the batteries, and this is something you need to work on. The simplest way of making sure you have a memorable and stress-free trip is to ensure your kids have the time of their lives as well.

The best way of achieving this is to make sure they have everything they need to have for an epic adventure. The more involved and interested your kids are, the better it will be for the future, and the trip will become much less stressful. These are some excellent ideas you can use that are going to help you make the most of your kids’ vacay experience.

One of the big decisions you need to make when traveling as a family is what you’re going to do about food. If you have kids with you, eating out every night is not viable, and it will soon cause the costs to mount up. However, all-inclusive can be an issue too because you then have a time limit you have to observe every day. The best, cheapest and least stressful approach to take is to go self-catering. That way you can provide the kids with what they want when they want, and ensure they are getting healthy mealtimes.

Taking a vacation as a family is a wonderful way of bonding and spending more quality time together. There are so many excellent places you can go and things you can do while you’re away, and the best thing to do is think about the kids. If you can make sure they have the best possible trip, it will make everything more pleasant and enjoyable.

We live in interesting times, as the old proverb goes, and much of what was taken for granted throughout human history is now being questioned on a daily basis. Fierce arguments and debates rage all around, new ideologies emerge, and old ones take on new formats.

In this dynamic, chaotic intellectual climate, worries over anti-scientific thinking have been rising steadily for some time now, particularly with the rise of the internet dethroning the vanguard of traditional media.

It is, however, the case that we are all prone to shoddy thinking and to being intellectually dishonest, if we don’t guard ourselves carefully against our own shortcomings, and remain humble, self-aware, and honest enough to spot them.

Here are some things you can do to help ensure that you remain intellectually honest despite all the temptation to the contrary.

A quote attributed to Aristotle runs “it is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain an idea without accepting it.”

What this means, essentially, is that being able to mull an idea over honestly, consider it’s merits and shortcomings, and consider the possibility that it might be true — without feeling compelled to accept it — is one of the highest forms of intellectual refinement.

This practice is increasingly being lost these days, as more and more of us seem to dismiss any ideas which go against our values, opinions, and biases, out of hand.

But it is only by entertaining ideas — even ones we find reprehensible — that we can come up with sophisticated, nuanced, and intellectually honest positions on things.

Humans are inherently tribal, and once we’ve identified ourselves with a particular political or ideological viewpoint, it is very easy for us to seek ways to defeat those in differing camps, rather than trying to engage in honest conversation, find out what they’re really saying, and use that information in the formation of our own views — whether we accept the other party’s motivations as ethical or factually valid, or not.

A conversation should always be about laying ideas on the table and interrogating them in the spirit of curiosity. A conversation should not be a Machiavellian game wherein in each party does their best to discredit or browbeat their opponent at all costs.

Nurture a sense of curiosity, and listen to what the other side has to say, then play with those ideas and see what you can unpack from them, in a dispassionate manner.

Issues that people consider worthy of emotional investment, are typically nuanced in the extreme. While we might be tempted to think that we have the final answer on any given topic, remaining open to the possibility that we might have more to learn — even more our opponents — is a way of ensuring that our ideas don’t stagnate, and that we remain intellectually honest.

It’s possible that the person you’re talking to may know less than you in many regards, but might know more than you in others, or might have insights you’d never have considered.

Teasing out the implications of these insights can force you to either strengthen and improve your own positions, or to adopt new, better and more cogent positions.

As a general rule, it’s highly unlikely that everyone who has radically different ideas to you, is just an evil, sinister, moron, and nothing else.

When we strawman our opponents, and make caricatures of them and their positions, all that we ultimately succeed in doing is ensuring that we never allow ourselves to see what they’re really saying, and why they’re saying those things.

When we’ve written someone and  their ideas off as “not worth engaging with”, we don’t disarm those ideas, or learn anything from them, we simply avoid the entire, difficult process of getting to the bottom of things, because we have convinced ourselves that we are above even acknowledging that real, normal people, genuinely hold those views.

This is an intellectually dishonest position, and flies in the face of the spirit of truth and open enquiry. Sometimes this straw-manning is done out of genuine biting contempt for the other party, and sometimes it’s done because we fear that the other party might say make a point that we’re forced to concede, and that our entire belief structure will come tumbling down as a result.