If your first sexual experience is with a hooker, you just might "fall in love" with her. The physiological power of sex is so convincing, you might overlook the fact that you keep paying her cash afterwards, and confuse this physiological pleasure with love.
It's the same reason you probably said "I love you" to the first person you slept with. Looking back, did you? No. A more accurate admission would have been to say, "I'm addicted to you."
Your friend finally breaks up with a girl that was so completely wrong for him and says to you, "What was I thinking???"
Sex is addictive. But, if your goal is long-term relationship, you really need to wait until marriage. Because over the long term, it's much more important to be addicted to the person.
August 22, 2011
3 Days. No Cell Phone.
Last Thursday, I came home from work realizing I had left my phone charger behind. I bring my phone charger to work with me because I have an Android smartphone (that I love), but that can't even make it through a single workday on a single charge.
So, how was I going to get through an entire weekend without it? I simply couldn't. I'd have to drive back to work and get it. Unless...
I simply turned my phone off, and turned it on twice a day to check voicemails and texts.
That's what I did. And it was a freeing experience for me. Because the always-on feature is really only necessary for emergency situations, and I was with my wife all weekend anyway. So, I was never going to need to be the first responder in an emergency.
It felt very 2002'ish. It felt good.
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So, how was I going to get through an entire weekend without it? I simply couldn't. I'd have to drive back to work and get it. Unless...
I simply turned my phone off, and turned it on twice a day to check voicemails and texts.
That's what I did. And it was a freeing experience for me. Because the always-on feature is really only necessary for emergency situations, and I was with my wife all weekend anyway. So, I was never going to need to be the first responder in an emergency.
It felt very 2002'ish. It felt good.