I recently wondered why guys don't really get catty with other guys. Perhaps this is obvious, but here's my thought. Guys don't understand that girls wouldn't want them, so they don't even understand the threat that another guy possesses to them. While girls are overly concerned and paranoid regarding female threats, and overreact against them. So, are there reasons for this? Or are we all just stupid? Perhaps men are considered desirable for multiple reasons, while women are considered desirable primarily (at least initially) based on aesthetics. So, we have this dude who's ugly as sin, but thinks to himself, "I'm hysterical!" Whereas, we have a brilliant, talented, considerate women who thinks to herself, "I should lose 6 pounds!"